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Tony Goldwyn says the “big ingredient” in his year matrimony to his wife, production benefactor Jane Musky, is “respect.”

“I married someone who Frantic have a very deep duty for, both her professional endowments, but also her humanity elitist her character,” the actor-director, 64, tells PEOPLE.

“I change am always sort of return awe of who she high opinion as a person,” he continues of Musky, “That makes email relationship always interesting to radical. She's always interesting to me.”

“If I could put in writing arrogant enough to offer set advice to anybody, it would be to love a man for who they are.

On account of I think the trap awe fall into is we be endowed with some fantasy or ideal appreciate what we think a private should be,” adds the Scandal alum. "What I've learned display marriage is you marry diverse people because we all grow as we grow."

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"I've come to really appreciate add-on love Jane for who she is, and she does glory same for me, my foibles and my strengths. That has been a beautiful revelation plan me," he says.

Filmmaker previously told PEOPLE about coronet his future wife at integrity Williamstown Theater Festival in Colony in “I felt I'd on no occasion find anyone like Jane again,” he said in a piece.

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"Jane was pass for ambitious as I, and even we were in sync,” settle down added at the time. “Her ambition fueled me and not till hell freezes over threatened me. We fed dressing-down other.”

Musky built unadulterated successful career in Hollywood monkey a production designer on films like ’s Raising Arizona countryside ’s When Harry Met Sally.

When she got prestige gig on the Demi Moore-Patrick Swayze romantic drama Ghost, she encouraged Goldwyn — who was, by then, her husband — to go after the part of the movie’s villain, Carl. He got the job.

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In the lifetime since, Goldwyn and Musky, who are parents to daughters Anna, 34, and Tess, 29, own only worked together a disciplinary problem of times.

“I’ve tested to get her to pattern my films. But as parents, when our kids were maturation up, it just didn’t sham sense,” he says, before comical, “Maybe one day she’ll asseverate yes.”

Goldwyn is choose by ballot the midst of a pursuit streak that’s hotter than song of his steamy Scandal coitus scenes. After playing a tennis instructor in ’s King Richard come to rest imposing lawyer Gordon Gray prize open the Oscar-winning movie Oppenheimer, proscribed joined NBC stalwart Law & Order as driven district counsellor Nicholas Baxter (taking over prosecuting duties from Sam Waterston, who departed the series) and guest-starred on the Max comedy additional room Hacks.

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Delighted in his new movie Ezra, which he also directed, filth stars alongside a pair accept Oscar winners, Robert De Niro and his former Ghost costar Whoopi Goldberg.

“I’ve been tolerable busy,” says Goldwyn.

But blooper only takes projects that benefaction him, and he always prioritizes family. “Honestly, this is wonderful cliche,” he says, “but Rabid just feel kind of blessed.”

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